Comments on: The Stages of Grief: Coping With Loss in Divorce http://davidvanwert.com Minutus cantorum, minutus balorum, minutus carborata descendum pantorum. Fri, 12 Mar 2010 18:23:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.2 By: Heather http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29683 Heather Sat, 20 Feb 2010 22:02:31 +0000 http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29683 Michelle, cupcakes and full-fat milk work pretty well, too. Michelle, cupcakes and full-fat milk work pretty well, too.

]]> By: Michelle http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29534 Michelle Wed, 20 Jan 2010 19:43:06 +0000 http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29534 Too bad I am 6 months pregnant and the bastard left I can't even go through the drunken stages Too bad I am 6 months pregnant and the bastard left I can’t even go through the drunken stages

]]> By: Jenny http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29256 Jenny Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:25:39 +0000 http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29256 Wow, now I see how much life sucka. Wow, now I see how much life sucka.

]]> By: Peggy http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29207 Peggy Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:32:45 +0000 http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29207 I Was at work today and really down. On October 25th, after 34 years of faithfully loving him, my husband said he wanted a divorce. I was served papers November 5th. So as you can see, I'm a Nube, and I am having more up and downs than a yo-yo being used by Tigger. For some reason I went on line and looked up the stages of grief, and lo and behold I found David. I got a gut laugh which I have not had in quite a while. So I thank you from the botton of my gut. I have plenty of faith, friends and family. All the FN's. I was missing one thing though and that was laughter. I listen to WMSJ which is a Christian music station,so I don't hear too much country, but I do LOVE Montgomery Gentry, and I think I'm starting to like the one where the women uses a key to scratch her ex's nice shiny car. Don't remember the name of it or who sang it. It's nice to know that one day I will feel normal and not feel a dozen feelings at once. My heart thanks you, my gut thanks you and my liver thanks you. (I like my Margaritas, but I only drink them when I visit my sister. Hmmmm, maybe I should visit her more often? You think?? I Was at work today and really down. On October 25th, after 34 years of faithfully loving him, my husband said he wanted a divorce. I was served papers November 5th. So as you can see, I’m a Nube, and I am having more up and downs than a yo-yo being used by Tigger. For some reason I went on line and looked up the stages of grief, and lo and behold I found David. I got a gut laugh which I have not had in quite a while. So I thank you from the botton of my gut. I have plenty of faith, friends and family. All the FN’s. I was missing one thing though and that was laughter. I listen to WMSJ which is a Christian music station,so I don’t hear too much country, but I do LOVE Montgomery Gentry, and I think I’m starting to like the one where the women uses a key to scratch her ex’s nice shiny car. Don’t remember the name of it or who sang it.
It’s nice to know that one day I will feel normal and not feel a dozen feelings at once. My heart thanks you, my gut thanks you and my liver thanks you. (I like my Margaritas, but I only drink them when I visit my sister. Hmmmm, maybe I should visit her more often? You think??

]]> By: Billy http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29195 Billy Tue, 10 Nov 2009 06:34:46 +0000 http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29195 I liked it funny pretty accurate. I think I am at the drunken anger stage 2nd one except i cant drink (got kids 24/7) I did geto drink a bit last summer:) :) kids were with the grand parrents often while i was at work. I am lucky i never see my cheating ex, never hear her voise, only emails and the ocasional texts. what is hard is hateing her and missing her at the same time. all the comments brought me a smile. Hopefully it wont last much longer i have been stuck here for the last 4 or 5 months. Keep up the good work Dave I liked it funny pretty accurate. I think I am at the drunken anger stage 2nd one except i cant drink (got kids 24/7) I did geto drink a bit last summer:) :) kids were with the grand parrents often while i was at work. I am lucky i never see my cheating ex, never hear her voise, only emails and the ocasional texts. what is hard is hateing her and missing her at the same time. all the comments brought me a smile. Hopefully it wont last much longer i have been stuck here for the last 4 or 5 months.
Keep up the good work Dave

]]> By: Jim http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29083 Jim Wed, 04 Nov 2009 22:38:44 +0000 http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29083 Checked back to this site several times during my divorce process to see what stage I was in. It's probably just a coincidence that whenever I checked it was always a "drunken (something)" stage. This site (and throwing hammers at things) has really kept me going. Thanks, Dave. That really helped! Checked back to this site several times during my divorce process to see what stage I was in. It’s probably just a coincidence that whenever I checked it was always a “drunken (something)” stage.

This site (and throwing hammers at things) has really kept me going. Thanks, Dave. That really helped!

]]> By: Dee http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29041 Dee Wed, 28 Oct 2009 18:44:40 +0000 http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29041 This is just TOO FUNNY!!! This is just TOO FUNNY!!!

]]> By: Rollin http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29009 Rollin Thu, 22 Oct 2009 14:16:51 +0000 http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29009 31 years down the crapper. I guess I'm in the angry drunk stage. But when she told me she wanted a divorce I didn't argue, but rather accepted it was inevitable. Great article. 31 years down the crapper. I guess I’m in the angry drunk stage. But when she told me she wanted a divorce I didn’t argue, but rather accepted it was inevitable. Great article.

]]> By: Suz http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29005 Suz Wed, 21 Oct 2009 12:36:19 +0000 http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-29005 Almost four years since my first comment about this great website. Have a friend who is going through a separation. I thought about your website and hope it cheers her up a little. She's in the guilt/country songs make me cry stage. Good checking up on y'all! Almost four years since my first comment about this great website. Have a friend who is going through a separation. I thought about your website and hope it cheers her up a little. She’s in the guilt/country songs make me cry stage. Good checking up on y’all!

]]> By: Eric http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-28990 Eric Fri, 16 Oct 2009 12:03:20 +0000 http://davidvanwert.com/stages-of-grief/#comment-28990 Oh crap, I don't drink. Now what happens? That helped anyway. Thank you sir. Oh crap, I don’t drink. Now what happens?

That helped anyway. Thank you sir.

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